21st Century Singledom

Dating while human, and other misadventures


Welcome to My New Blog

  • Start Here

    September 17, 2019 by

    A little bit about why I’m undertaking this project and a couple of ground rules I’m setting for myself

  • Words: The Story of Abe

    November 17, 2019 by

    Yesterday I heard from an old boyfriend, whom I’ll call Abe here. Abe was my first boyfriend, back in the Spring and Summer of 2011, and remains the only man who’s said he loved me.  It was a strange relationship: It was long distance and cross-border, I was just emerging from the absolute worst season… Read more

  • “Chemistry”

    November 1, 2019 by

    When the question of a potential second (or third) date comes up, it’s often declined with a statement like “There just isn’t any chemistry.” There’s a good reason for this: it’s strong enough to send the message but vague enough not to be offensive. So, I get it. And, I definitely understand that feeling of… Read more

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